Good day, dear brothers and sisters in Christ. Today, we gather here to discuss a topic that touches the lives of many in our congregation and beyond. It is a topic that can bring pain, confusion, and heartache to those who have experienced it, and it is a subject that demands our careful consideration as Seventh-day Adventist Christians. Our topic today is divorce.
I. The Sanctity of Marriage:
Before delving into the complexities of divorce, let us first remind ourselves of the divine institution of marriage. God, in His wisdom, created marriage to be a sacred covenant between a man and a woman. In the book of Genesis, we read, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24 ESV).
Marriage is intended to be a reflection of God’s love for His people, the church. It is a bond that is meant to be unbreakable, a union built on love, trust, and commitment. As Seventh-day Adventists, we believe in upholding the sanctity of marriage and promoting strong, healthy relationships within our families.
II. God’s Design for Marriage:
In the Bible, Jesus reaffirmed God’s design for marriage when He said, “What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate” (Matthew 19:6 ESV). This verse reminds us that marriage is not just a human contract but a divine covenant. It’s a promise made not only to one’s spouse but also to God Himself.
III. The Reality of Broken Marriages:
Despite our best intentions, we must acknowledge the painful reality that marriages sometimes face insurmountable challenges. There are times when couples find themselves in situations of deep conflict, abuse, or unfaithfulness. In such circumstances, the question of divorce inevitably arises.
IV. Divorce in Adventist Teaching:
Seventh-day Adventists approach the issue of divorce with great care and in accordance with biblical principles. We believe that divorce should not be taken lightly, as it can have far-reaching consequences for individuals, families, and the church. However, we also recognize that the Bible permits divorce in certain circumstances.
1. Grounds for Divorce:
The Bible provides two specific grounds for divorce:
- Sexual Immorality: In Matthew 5:32, Jesus stated, “But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery” (ESV). This exception acknowledges that infidelity can rupture the marital covenant.
- Desertion by an Unbelieving Spouse: The Apostle Paul, in 1 Corinthians 7:15, writes, “But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases, the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace” (ESV). This passage recognizes that a believer may find themselves in a marriage where their unbelieving spouse chooses to leave, and in such cases, the believer is not bound to continue the marriage.
2. Reconciliation and Forgiveness:
While divorce may be allowed under certain circumstances, it should always be viewed as a last resort. As Christians, we are called to seek reconciliation whenever possible, to extend forgiveness, and to work towards healing within our marriages.
V. Pastoral Care and Support:
For those among us who have experienced divorce, or those who may be facing this difficult decision, our church is here to offer pastoral care, support, and guidance. It is crucial that we, as a community of faith, approach individuals who have gone through divorce with love and compassion, helping them heal and grow in their relationship with God.
In conclusion, divorce is a deeply challenging and sensitive issue that must be approached with grace, humility, and a commitment to upholding the sanctity of marriage. As Seventh-day Adventists, we are called to follow the teachings of Christ and the principles found in Scripture while offering support and understanding to those who are navigating the stormy waters of divorce. May we continually seek God’s wisdom and guidance in our marriages, and may His love and grace shine through us as we minister to those affected by divorce in our congregation and beyond.
Let us pray for God’s wisdom and healing in all our relationships, that we may honor Him through our actions and choices. Amen.
